Know your limits. Don't go too far too soon as you'll probably scare her witless and this will be a no go area from that point on. Don't cross the line into sleasville- explore her limits before really going for it!

Be genuine. The most difficult part of talking dirty is trying to sound genuine, without being cheesy. Make sure you say it like you mean it- or she won't believe you. Only go as far as she feel comfortable.

Dirty prompt. Use dirty language to encourage and prompt your partner. For example: ' Harder! Faster!' If she's doing something you like say: 'Yeah baby yeah! Only you could do it like that!'

Learn it. Learn the language and learn your partners preferences! With a combination like this you can't go wrong.….

A time for giving…..

This game can be played all year round, but is most associated with Christmas- the time for giving….and receiving. Invest in about a dozen candles, get a bit of variety, big, small, fat and thin and spread them around the entire room. This will give a really magical, romantic effect. Hand your partner one of the candles and lead her to the room. Sit her down and gently take off her top and start to kiss and caress her without saying a word. You could also add a glass of wine or even some toys from your goody draw…concentrate on her and her needs make her feel special and like a queen……

Competition time…..

Everyone has a competitive streak - whether they deny it or not. The idea is to devise 10 questions, about you and your relationship. For example:

'When did we first have sex?'
'Where is the dirtiest place we've ever had sex?'
'What's the most times we had sex in one night?'

and so on I'm sure you get the idea…..

Go out for dinner and when you get to desert explain the rules of the competition to her, tell her there are 10 questions and will be asked over the next 10 days. If she answers correctly then she wins a prize- if she doesn't- then no prize that day…

Put each question in an envelope and label it corresponding to each day. Put the question in the envelope along with two key phrases: a) a sexual fantasy and b) a sex position……these give her a clue of what to expect if she wins…..

Getting to know those oh so special places…..

This is a very important part in truly satisfying and making your woman feel good about herself. These zones are known as 'erogenous zones' and although they differ slightly from woman to woman the basic idea is basically the same. These zones are packed with nerve endings that make them incredibly sensitive. Here's some suggestions to get you started…..

Buttocks. A lot of women like their bum to be played with, some women also like to be spanked and pinched…….

Inner thighs. Your inner thighs are packed with nerve endings. They are very sensitive when stroked, caressed and licked.

Knee Pit. This area is also packed with nerve endings and is even more sensitive because the skin is quite thin. Use you tongue and nibble this area. Gently rub the pit with the pads of your fingers.

Feet. A lot of women enjoy having their feet touched and massaged. Some liked to have their toes sucked and licked. Beware feet are a very ticklish area- so try and vary the pressure accordingly.

Nape of the neck. Use your tongue and your teeth to really arouse her. Incorporate the use of your hands performing the sensual massage that you have perfected in previous sections….

Anus. This part contains more nerve endings than anything apart from the clit. Don't worry if it's not your thing- it isn't everybody's just find out…..

Nipples. Just play with them- make them hard……

Lips. Again lips and kissing become under rated. Remember what you have learned and you'll be an expert..

Clitoris. Need I say more. use your fingers, your mouth or both and let your partner guide you- after all she knows best…..