Playing with body paints is a great, fun way to kick off this part of your sex life. It gives you the perfect excuse to explore and get to know every part of her body that you've never really dared to go. All ways use your hands when applying the paint- it brings a much closer atmosphere and it makes the whole experience much more sensual. Remember to relax, really go for it and show her your artistic talent! You could use a blindfold, this will heighten her other senses and make her tingle with anticipation. You could draw pictures on her body and let her guess what they stand for, or even write her messages and let her guess what they mean…….

Massage

Skin and flesh is one of the most over looked sexual organs- but trust me it has great potential to cause a stir. Giving your partner a sensual massage is one of the most intimate things you can do to bring your partner closer together. To heighten your partners sexual awareness to the highest possible level it is advised that you use a variety of props that are available from around the home. For example: feathers, spoons, forks, soap bar, teddy bear fur….the list goes on and on it's up to you just use your imagination……

The next step is blindfold your partner. This will activate his sense of touch more than usual. Then begin to experiment with different props, ask your partner which she likes best and how it makes her feel. Take the game further by letting her guess what prop you are going to use next……

Changing for the better...

This games is all about changing your sex life for the better- after this you'll never look back! All you need is patience, access to the internet and some creativity. However much your partner will deny it, inside she loves the thought of being dominated- and this month you're going to show her just what you can do. If you're bored with your sex life take the lead- show her you are willing to be different, show her that you are exciting and she will respond accordingly!

The first step is to go and find some adult websites and look out some positions that you know you and your partner will enjoy! Then once you've found a few print them out and then leave them for her to find around the house- maybe even attach a suggestive note: 'How about it- you and me?' The notes are pretty key- it's these that will excite her and make her anticipate the time you spend together.

When the time arrives go for it! Don't be afraid to give it all you've got- if she sees you she'll follow suit!

Talking orally

Most people fall down in this area because they simply concentrate on the main sexual organ - in a females case her clit. In this game the idea is to touch everything but! This will drive your partner crazy, by exploring her whole body apart from you know where!

Gently help your partner to undress using an item of her clothing to blindfold her- it is very important that this blindfold should stay in place throughout the whole game. Start by caressing, stroking and kissing your partners whole body from top to toe- but remember to skip her genitals, when she begins to bubble and squirm slowly make your way up to her gentailia.

Begin then to stimulate your partner anyway you choose but avoid direct contact with her clit throughout this game, and also try not to insert your fingers into her vagina. Other areas can be caressed with your tongue, including her inner lips…..

Lighting Up

This involves a lot of work but trust me it's worth it!

In the morning tell your partner to be home by 6.30pm sharp - and if she's late they'll be trouble! When she gets home she'll sense something exciting is going to happen as she approaches to house- as you'll have turn of all the lights! As she opens the door she'll find a trail of candles leading from one room to the next. Leave her a note asking her to follow them in the lounge. Have waiting for her a large glass of wine and a note reading 'Leave it all behind and relax but don't be too long as the night is only just beginning' The trail of candles then leads into the next room , where she will find a box and a nice note saying 'Comfortable? Slip into me…' Then the trail leads into the bedroom where she will find you waiting, but she will have to wait a little while longer as a bath and and another glass of wine await her.

Leave her for half an hour and then come and get her, be ready with the towel to wrap her up warm and dry her hair. As you dry her off murmur endearments to her, while gently easing away her towel, then begin to massage her body and take it from there…..