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When we were children we loved games,
every child does because even though most games are very simple, for a child they are fun.
As adults we can look at those games now and wonder what it was that we ever found
entertaining about them but with just a slight variation in the game’s objectives and
theme those childish games we enjoyed years ago can become fun once more. Many of those
childhood games are easily adapted to become raunchy adult games that can be used to break
the ice and open up the adults who are playing the game to the possibility of some more
adventuress interaction.
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Childhood games were always innocent and usually just played for fun. There is never anything malicious in those types of games, there is no inherent danger in any of them, these games are just meant to be fun. Even so, children do sometimes get hurt. They can feel humiliated, threatened or put down by the other children. However, the tears and emotional pain do not last long because children are resilient and they soon bounce back.
Just as kids can get hurt by playing games so can adults. Adults are not so resilient and when adults get hurt because they are humiliated, threatened or jealous the wounds can last forever. That can make playing adult games rather more dangerous if you are not sensitive to your partner and her needs.
There is no doubt that playing adult games with a group of friends who really do want to go further can be a lot of fun and a great way to get to know one another better but you must be careful or you might find that the game turns into a disaster.
Let’s use the popular childhood game of Truth and Dare as an example. When played by kids it is innocent and harmless but when it is translated into an adult game no one wants it to be innocent and so it always has the potential to be harmful to someone in the group. The harm may not be physical but it certainly can be emotional.
If you want to play a game like that you really do need to be aware of where your partner is emotionally. You may feel that your relationship is rock-solid but she may not be so certain. She may feel insecure; she may be jealous and not able to handle the truth if it comes out in a game like that.
When asked to be truthful and tell everyone what you think of another female in the group you might think that admitting to wanting to get her into bed is a fairly innocent admission in the circumstances. On the other hand your partner may see it in an entirely different light if she is insecure within herself. She may see an answer like that in an adult game that is a lead-up to some group fun as an indication that you don’t care for her anymore.
The same thing applies to taking a dare. It may seem perfectly innocent and just plain adult fun to you but your partner may not see it the same way. Don’t always think that because other couples in the group seem comfortable and carefree that the same applies to your situation.
I am not saying that you should avoid adult games at all costs. My partner and I enjoy them as much as anyone because adult games give us a chance to let the wild side of our personality hang out. What I am suggesting is that you should not let yourself get carried away by the erotic fun to the point where you forget your partner.
Always be aware of her and where she is emotionally and don’t push the limits of your relationship without discussing it with her first.
