Tip #1

The idea when touching the clitoris is obviously to excite your partner. You should always make sure before you touch the clitoris or the vagina that your nails are cleaned and trimmed. Long finger nails can be very painful for a lady. Make sure you ONLY touch the clitoris once the clitoris is wet. If the clitoris is dry you may lick your fingers but generally the women should be excited enough to get her juices going before the clitoris is touched. Do NOT get offended as a male if your ladies juices are not instantly flowing. This is NOT because she doesn't fancy you it is more likely to do with her current menstrual cycle. So gently rub the clitoris using any motion you choose, its always a good idea to have some kind of rhythm however. Personally I found that writing an imaginary figure eight with my fingers always does the trick (did I mention I am bisexual?). Whatever you do make sure that you do not dramatically increase the speed, it is better to keep at a constant tempo.

Tip #2

Massaging the clitoris is all about experimenting and finding out what she really likes. Some women love to have a man firmly touch and suck the clitoris while others prefer gently indirect touches. The clitoris can quickly become numb from the same kind of touch over and over again. It is very important to have good communication with your lover as after all she ultimately knows what she likes the best.

Tip #3

The most important tip anywhere on this entire site. LEARN HOW TO PERFORM PERFECT CUNNILINGUS. Of course here at Mens-Network we have provided many articles on this subject including a females personal view, lesbians and of course my personal view on the best way to do this. If you do not have the time to go looking for these excellent articles, MAKE time, it is really that important.

2. The Labia - Women because they talk too much (poor joke Ed) have an extra two pair of lips down below. These are commonly referred to in our site as the inner and outer lips. The outer lips cover the vulva (this is the entrance to the vagina). These lips are used to protect against bacteria. The vagina is one clean place so men there is no need to worry when you go down there to provide cunnilingus for your partner. The inner lips during sexual arousal will become full of blood and are very sensitive. So why should you know this? Well these seemingly boring lips are another tool for you to help her reach another amazing orgasm.

Tip #1

The outer lips of the vagina are very sensitive and receptive to touch especially if a state of arousal as occurred. Gentle kissing of the thigh will cause a state of arousal. Without touching the vagina at all, gently breath on the lips as you pass up towards or stomach. This will make the lips even more receptive, repeat this process a few times and she will be urging you down onto her. When this happens, don't keep her waiting. With either your fingers or preferably your mouth gently massage the outer lip, making sure to stay well away from that pulsating clitoris. If using your mouth take the entire outer lip in your mouth and gently suck and roll it around in your mouth, you will soon hear when you are doing something right.

Tip #2

The inner lip should be surrounded by juices and you want to keep these flowing, gently pull back the lip and breath on the underside, this will make her thrust her vagina towards you. Don't keep her waiting dive in there. This breathing on the inner lips during intense foreplay would probably lead to the oncoming of her orgasm.

I continue with my ramblings in the next article, remember guys these are just the basics that everyone should know, in our main articles we go into A LOT more detail. Now get a move on to the next part!